Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
There is not a whole lot more I can say about this one. Other than that it is true: of course gazing at each other can be lovely, especially at the beginning. But feeling that you are a union, with mutual goals, trying to conquer problems together: in the end that is what it is about.
Wishing you all a loving and happy sunday!